NY_Cade69
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Just grin and say "There are a lot of hot guys in evs out there"She laughed and said - "yeah, well I look awesome in this big truck and your space ship sounds g@y when you drive by"
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Just grin and say "There are a lot of hot guys in evs out there"She laughed and said - "yeah, well I look awesome in this big truck and your space ship sounds g@y when you drive by"
Nobody looks good in a big, smelly, noisy truck. Nobody ever has. Nobody ever will. And why is your wife using 'gay' as a slur? Homophobia is even less attractive than "eco"deisel trucks.She laughed and said - "yeah, well I look awesome in this big truck and your space ship sounds g@y when you drive by"
You need a good attorney, like those who advocate for dads’ rights. You’ll get full custody and void any prenups, especially if you show the judge all the bruises. Just be brave! You’re not only doing it for yourself, but for all the men out there.I tried to use logic and even showed her this: https://www.switch2zero.com/resources/blogs/diesel-vs-electric-cars
She laughed and said - "yeah, well I look awesome in this big truck and your space ship sounds g@y when you drive by"
I don't think I am winning anything today, might just go back to bed and see how tomorrow pans out.
This is the only correct answer.Just say “Yes, dear” and move on.
My wife bought and owns a 2020 F-150 Raptor. Performance Blue. Fully loaded. It’s hers. I’m allowed to wash and detail it. The end.I've seen plenty of ladies that looked very attractive as Copilot or Pilot of a good Ole American pickup truck
Terminology is different between generations, even emojis.Nobody looks good in a big, smelly, noisy truck. Nobody ever has. Nobody ever will. And why is your wife using 'gay' as a slur? Homophobia is even less attractive than "eco"deisel trucks.
| Generation | Common Interpretation of |
|---|---|
| Baby Boomers (1946–1964) | "Looks good," "I agree," "Message received." Usually seen as positive and efficient. |
| Generation X (1965–1980) | Similar to Boomers. Often means approval, acknowledgment, or "thanks." Little emotional meaning attached. |
| Millennials (1981–1996) | Mixed. Can be genuine approval, but may also feel somewhat impersonal depending on context. |
| Generation Z (1997–2012) | More likely to interpret it as cold, dismissive, passive-aggressive, or ending a conversation, especially in casual chats. |
| Generation | Common Experience with the Word "Gay" |
|---|---|
| Baby Boomers | Originally knew "gay" to mean "happy" or "carefree." By adulthood it primarily meant homosexual. Generally used literally rather than as slang. |
| Generation X | Grew up during the 1980s–90s when "gay" was often used as a casual insult meaning "stupid," "lame," or "uncool," even when not referring to sexual orientation. |
| Millennials | Many used "that's so gay" as slang in middle and high school during the late 1990s and early 2000s. Over time, awareness grew that this usage was hurtful, and many stopped using it. |
| Generation Z | Generally understands "gay" almost exclusively as referring to sexual orientation or LGBTQ+ identity. Using it as a synonym for "bad" or "stupid" is much less common and is often viewed as offensive. |
Speaking of co-pilot...I love the idea of BlueCruise while eating a cheeseburger.Geeez guys.
Have you never had the pleasure of marital banter? It's some of that spice of life. The best kind.
And although I'm an old geezer way past my prime, I've seen plenty of ladies that looked very attractive as Copilot or Pilot of a good Ole American pickup truck.
Never been to a county fair? Or a rodeo?![]()
Your wife is right, always...Terminology is different between generations, even emojis.
Generation Common Interpretation of Baby Boomers (1946–1964) "Looks good," "I agree," "Message received." Usually seen as positive and efficient. Generation X (1965–1980) Similar to Boomers. Often means approval, acknowledgment, or "thanks." Little emotional meaning attached. Millennials (1981–1996) Mixed. Can be genuine approval, but may also feel somewhat impersonal depending on context. Generation Z (1997–2012) More likely to interpret it as cold, dismissive, passive-aggressive, or ending a conversation, especially in casual chats.
So while you think of it as homophobic and rude, other people do not.
Generation Common Experience with the Word "Gay" Baby Boomers Originally knew "gay" to mean "happy" or "carefree." By adulthood it primarily meant homosexual. Generally used literally rather than as slang. Generation X Grew up during the 1980s–90s when "gay" was often used as a casual insult meaning "stupid," "lame," or "uncool," even when not referring to sexual orientation. Millennials Many used "that's so gay" as slang in middle and high school during the late 1990s and early 2000s. Over time, awareness grew that this usage was hurtful, and many stopped using it. Generation Z Generally understands "gay" almost exclusively as referring to sexual orientation or LGBTQ+ identity. Using it as a synonym for "bad" or "stupid" is much less common and is often viewed as offensive.
So, step off your high horse/pony and see that this thread is meant for playful banter between spouses and acquiring actual talking points to help justify why my car is better than hers.
On this, I will conceed!Your wife is right, always...
Ain't no way anyhing is better than a pickup in Texas...
Except, perhaps In and Out in any other state...
This is a pathetic excuse to continue doing what one has always done, regardless of the fact that we live in a constantly changing society. What it actually means is "I'm going to say whatever I want, and I don't care if it does harm to others."Terminology is different between generations, even emojis.
I'm definitively Gen X, born in '74. I vividly remember when using the word 'gay' as an insult was common, and widely considered acceptable "banter." That was decades ago - I was still an ignorant kid at the time (yes, I'm including my 20s as "ignorant kid" period). It has long been considered unacceptable by most to use a person's immutable traits as an insult. I prefer to grow over time and not to use my generation as an excuse for shitty behavior, so I simply don't do that anymore. Neither should anyone else who wants to be a decent person. It's not difficult to give it up.So while you think of it as homophobic and rude, other people do not.
No.So, step off your high horse/pony and see that this thread is meant for playful banter between spouses and acquiring actual talking points to help justify why my car is better than hers.
Then go stand on your soap box and shout to every person to conform to every standard.This is a pathetic excuse to continue doing what one has always done, regardless of the fact that we live in a constantly changing society. What it actually means is "I'm going to say whatever I want, and I don't care if it does harm to others."
Calling it "marital banter" is likewise just an excuse. Most marriages manage to have healthy, fun banter without disparaging whole groups of people, and then carrying such casual bigotry onto a public automotive forum.
I'm definitively Gen X, born in '74. I vividly remember when using the word 'gay' as an insult was common, and widely considered acceptable "banter." That was decades ago - I was still an ignorant kid at the time (yes, I'm including my 20s as "ignorant kid" period). It has long been considered unacceptable by most to use a person's immutable traits as an insult. I prefer to grow over time and not to use my generation as an excuse for shitty behavior, so I simply don't do that anymore. Neither should anyone else who wants to be a decent person. It's not difficult to give it up.
No.
Try this,I tried to use logic and even showed her this: https://www.switch2zero.com/resources/blogs/diesel-vs-electric-cars
She laughed and said - "yeah, well I look awesome in this big truck and your space ship sounds g@y when you drive by"
I don't think I am winning anything today, might just go back to bed and see how tomorrow pans out.